It's insane how things just fall appart. Its frightening as well. One of my friends just ended things with his girlfriend of almost three years. It wasnt like we heard much about her, but i personaly did not see it comeing. I knew things were a bit iffy, but they had been together for three years it was probably nothing they havent had to deal with before.
He says that he is alright, but i dont think he is. i know he loved her and it must be hard. hearing about things like this, events such as theirs makes me wonder if all this glamour given to relationships is really worth it. Do i really want to put alot of effort in something that will just fall appart a few years down the rode. I guess we live and learn. Deal with the past and move on in the future but its still frightening. One comment that he had was that he hadnt been single for three years. that he doesnt know how it is. I guess that is a concern, but its not so big of a deal, i think id be more scared of a relationship as serious as theirs. Mainly because you never know what can happen. what if the other person was just with you because he or she was to scared to call it off earlier. that they dont feel the same way as you do about them. luckily we're still young but what if they were older. what if they had made scacrifies because of the other and then it just falls about. how are they going to feel then. what if they gave up a big oppurtunity for somthing they thing they have to just have it crumble.
but i guess trust plays a large part in this. You trust the other person enough that you dont need to worry about that. YOu love them and trust their word that they love you too. I guess this is just life and its better that things happen to us now when we are younger then when we are older and can be more problimatic.
Above all i hope he'll be okay. He's a great guy and i dont want to lose him to this.
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